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Cottage Dispatches: On Making the Dock Whole
We’ve only owned a cottage since Covid, and after replacing the original sinking dock with a brand spanking new one, we’ve had to figure out how to manage the moving parts. The first winter, we were dismayed to find a part of our dock frozen close to the shore—not where
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Curiosity Over Fear
What is it that your heart desires? I think about this question often. I check in with myself to see what are my goals and am I on track to reach those goals with how I’m living my life? I am convinced that saying what we want for ourselves out
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Moving On
Come wintertime where we live, once the temperature drops and stays firmly in the minuses dads from the neighbourhood come together to build a skating rink in the park behind our house. Last winter, when Elyse was nine, we were skating as a family on that rink, and Elyse was
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Snapshot of Grief
When your child is sick, nothing else matters. Literally, it’s as though the world stops. I don’t mean sick with a cold, though that presents its own challenges. I mean sick and you don’t know what’s wrong. Sick and you think you’ve cured the problem, but then you haven’t. Sick
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two kids wrapped in blue towels wearing sunglasses sitting in lounger chairs
What Did She Say?
WHAT did she say? I will preface these stories only by saying that Penelope is a six-year-old with doe eyes and a mop of curls. The other day, I notice Penelope’s on her way to the basement. “What are you doing?” I ask her, friendly-like. “You don’t need to know
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On Carrying Grief
Let me tell you a story. Once, there was a writer who gave birth to a daughter with Down syndrome. Wait. That’s not how the story goes. Let’s begin again. Once, there was a woman who wanted to write a book. She gave birth to a daughter with Down syndrome
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On Being A Happy Person
I think of myself as being a happy person. I hope people who know me would describe me that way. What does it mean to be a happy person? Can someone become a happy person? Nature or nurture or both? For me, being a happy person comes from a happy
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On Finishing
No story is ever truly finished. We live out our lives in waves, and sometimes we stop telling our tale, suspended, at the height of crests, and other times, we find ourselves holding our breath underwater somewhere near the bottom, left in the trough until the next rising wave comes
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